Question for people with bpd

If your partner/fp played a game as a character of their opposite gender, would it make you uneasy?

Whether it's a visually appealing character or not.

I've heard a lot of men say they only play as females because they rather look at something nice. I've seen some women say the same, but it's usually men.

The hitbox thing is just a dumb excuse in most games, because it doesn't work like that.

At some point I think it's harmless and not that deep, but if they have the need to look at a nice figure what else do they urge, you know, or at least that's what my bpd tells me.

Am I tripping or is it a valid thought?