What feels like you are flexing whenever you do it but you just doing the obvious thing

I'll go first carrying cake boxes from these retail supermarkets in town feels like you just calling for attention like hey look at me and also carrying a box of pizza too. This feels so embarrassing to me whenever I do them like I didn't mean to flex in y'all but it is what it is. Or using your visa card to pay for stuff too. What do you do that makes you feel this way