Any happily mean INFJ’s out there

Not mean as in evil but instead fiercely protect their peace. I enjoy being “a bxtch” as people love to use. Fully taking on in my selfishness has allowed me to be a better person, parent, friend, partner etc. I completely disregard those or things that overtake and pour into the right people. I no longer force a smile to be friendly, I skip on small talk, I say “no” more often, and I speak up for myself.

Any mean INFJ’s?