What am I doing wrong?

I loved the realness of some of the recent comments here & welcome any & all advice- here are some of my outfits and vibes over the past few months (current to last 6 months)

What stands out? What would you change? Does anything work? Should I give up on trying to make any of this work all together? Do I have any makeup blindness? I’m phasing out my dreads and trying to figure out the hair currently, mom keeps telling me it’s bad ):

Thankyou for taking the time💕